Do More Of What Makes You Happy!

Hey guys! What's up? Today's blog post is going to be about staying happy and surrounding your self with the best people you possibly can and just general things that will make you happy- or at least try to make you happy. I will be talking about my experiences with friends and I hope I can make you be a little more happy! Remember to keep on sending me questions and where you like to be in the summer holidays. Please remember to read the end of my last post for competition rules and what you have to do! Without further of due, lets get on with this post!

Staying happy all the time isn't easy. Let's admit it. We all have our down days and we all have our up days. That is perfectly fine and it's normal. Sometimes, we need to have our down days in order to appreciate our up days even more. But our main goal in life is to be happy. To be happy in our jobs, our family, our friends and everything that makes you, you! I personally find it hard to stay happy all the time with dealing with anxiety. Anxiety is not fun. At some points, it feels like you are going to die I have to admit it but then I remind my self about how lucky I am to have all my family and friends who support me and then I feel better. First topic we will talk about is staying happy with your friends.

I love my friends, they make me who I am and who I want to be and they inspire me everyday. My best friend is a sister to me. We do absolutely everything together and we enjoy each others company more than anyone else's and we love each other more than anyone else and you will never quite understand our relationship unless you're in it. I'm going to call this person 'Bestie'. Two years ago, Bestie had another best friend. This other best friend was the biggest bully I think I have ever seen in my life. She was rude and genuinely a cow. That is the nicest way I can put her. She was rude to me and controlled Bestie's life basically and she was jealous of our relationship. Bestie and I knew each other way longer before Bestie's other best friend was in the picture. The year later ( last year) me, Bestie and Bestie's other best friend all became really close- and I mean really close! You could not separate us. We were all there for each other and we just understood each other like no one else could ever understand us. Its now this year and things have changed and this is the year where I was not happy. Bestie's other Best friend went back to her original ways and started to become a cow again. Bestie and I grew apart to that girl and we separated. And of  course Bestie's other best friend got jealous so she started being mean like; bad mouthing me to everyone and I mean everyone! Started calling me names and started to rub things into my face and worse of all, they made fun of my anxiety and said it was all a hoax to get attention. She also started to comment on my size and thats where it crossed the line. Of course I got mad. So I spoke to Bestie about this and Bestie and I dumped Bestie's other best friend, who is not a friend anymore. This felt so good not to have this negative weight on my shoulders anymore. Moral of the story is, surround your self with people who you genuinely trust and make you happy. If a person is somehow not making you happy, don't even bother with that person. Its not worth it and it will only make things worse for your happiness. If that person is bothering you, they don't deserve your happiness. Make sure you surround your self with positive people and people who make you happy.

Going to work is not fun (if you are a teen reading this, keep this advice in your head for when you start looking for a job). I have had a summer job this past summer and it was hard. My boss treated me like dirt, I worked extra hours just to get minimum wage and I generally hated it so I decided to leave. It didn't matter about the money anymore, my happiness was at stake here. I thought to my self, is it really worth me busting my gut when I'm not getting anything in return? So I decided to quit. It felt so good. If you are not enjoying what job you have, quit it. It's not worth wasting your days doing something you don't love. One day you live is a day that you will never get back, so make sure you live your life to how you want it. Also, if you love doing your job, you will never have to work a day in your life ever again.

Going to work and having friends isn't the only thing that should make you happy. This is the part where your hobbies come in and what you like watching or playing and general things like that. This part is also the part where staying healthy comes in. By keeping a good diet and staying fit, it will make you feels so good everyday and inspired to do more of what makes your happy in life. I love blogging and I love to write what ever I want and no one is ever going to stop me. That feels so good just doing what I want on this blog and you guys are loving it too! I also like to entertain people. Whether its to make you laugh, to sing or to dance (which is something I really want to learn how to do!) And this really makes me happy. And do more of what makes you happy because honestly, its the best feeling in the world! Also if your are embarrassed about something, embrace it because its YOUR life and not anyone else's. You have to please and help your self before you can do anything for anyone else. If your are embarrassed by the way you dance, who cares! Dance like no one is watching because you shouldn't be embarrassed by something you love doing and what makes you happy! Also keep on watching things that make you happy! I love youtube, youtube is basically my life and I LOVE watching everyone's videos and vlogs. They just make me so happy and they make me laugh and inspire me everyday to do more of what I love. I also love watching T.V. (I mean who doesn't?) I love watching different shows that make me laugh and make me feel calm and laugh and most importantly happy! So the moral here is do more of what makes you happy!

Thank you guys so much for reading this post! I hope it helped at least one person. I want you guys to comment 3 things that make your happy and if you have any suggestions on how to make people happy, comment that as well! Please read the end of my last post to find out more about the contest. Thank you guys so much for making me happy and see you guys soon!

xoxo It's Just That Girl